A couple of weekends ago, we took our first Pitcher family vacation. Yes, we’ve gone on trips before, but it’s always included other family going with us, visiting family at our final destination, or just the two of us. This was an actual trip, away from home, staying in a hotel, with a destination… and with two kids in tow!
Now, some people might be inclined to approach the ‘first family vacation’ as a milestone, something to be cherished, remembered and revered. A vacation that will be remembered throughout time, one that will be measured against all other vacations to come. Well, it will be remembered and measured – but maybe not for the reasons you might think. Don’t get me wrong – overall, it was a wonderful trip, one I know Jonah will remember for a long time… and one Wayne and I will be reminded of until we’re able to catch up on all the lost sleep.
You can probably guess from the title where we went on our FIRST EVER family vacation. We don’t do things small in the Pitcher family. Sure, we could have headed to Half Moon Bay or Santa Cruz for the weekend, or even waited for the first snowfall and went to Tahoe for a weekend of sledding. That would have been too easy. Nope, we decided to do Disney – over a weekend.
Did I mention we hadn’t told Jonah about Disneyland yet? I dropped the bomb about a week before the trip that we were driving down to southern California, where I grew up, to visit some friends and see my old neighborhood. He was less than excited – I think he would rather have gotten a flu shot! Well, on Friday morning Wayne asked him about the trip, and he said he didn’t want to go. He then asked Jonah if he knew mommy grew up near Disneyland. It didn’t take him long to put it together
So, our planning started out innocently enough. I mean, it’s only a trip to southern California – how hard could that be? Jonah had a day off school, so we figured we could be ‘leisurely’ and make it a long weekend trip. Our first instinct was to leave Thursday after work – however a few weeks ago we took a trip to my parent’s house and left after work. They only live a few hours away, and when Wayne got pulled over by a cop at 11:00pm for swerving, we thought maybe driving through the night after a full day of working might not be such a good idea.
So, we decided to leave ‘early’ on Friday. Well, early to some, isn’t the same as early to others. We finally got out of our town at 9:00am – which is actually early to some in my family! No need to drag out the story any longer than it needs to be… Bottom line is it took us 11 hours to get to our hotel. I will never complain about Bay Area traffic again (well, I probably will, but at least I can now put it in perspective!). We got on the other side of the ‘grapevine’ at about 3:30pm…. and we didn’t get to the hotel in Anaheim until after 8pm. All in all, I’d have to say Dylan was an excellent traveler. He was getting a bit cranky towards the end, but heck, weren’t we all?!
The hotel was perfect. Portofino Inns. Not a lot of frills, but was great. It was sort of like a ’suite’ without paying the ’suite’ price. Had french doors to separate a portion that had a bunk bed and pull-out couch. No ‘lights out’ for the whole gang – we could relax and unwind after the long trip just fine.

Jonah and Dylan are all smiles the morning of our big day at the park!
After a relaxed morning getting ready, we headed next door to the Sheraton for some breakfast. The place was recommended by one of the clerks in the hotel lobby. I actually had a decent breakfast, but I think Wayne would rather have just grabbed a bagel in the lobby and been on our way.

Jonah enjoying a hearty breakfast to get ready for Disneyland!
I have yet to mention and thank 2 very important people in making this trip happen – Lisa Wittenberg and her mom Darlene. Lisa is a dear friend of mine from high school. Her mom Darlene, has been working at Disneyland for a while now and had graciously extended an invitation to me and my family to come to the park. We are so very grateful to both of them.
While waiting to meet Darlene at the entrance to California Adventure (which, by the way, was a parking lot the last time I went to Disney…. 17 years ago!!), Jonah and Dylan stopped for a photo…

The day at the park was great. Jonah and Wayne went on their way as soon as we stepped in the park, and I hung out with Dylan for a long day of quality mommy/baby time. It was fine with me – I enjoyed walking around, getting nostalgic while eating my frozen banana, and letting Wayne get exhausted while running around the park with Jonah! We met up a few times and I actually rode Autotopia with Jonah.

We left the park around 6:30pm, needing to head back to the hotel (which was just down the block), to get some food for the baby. As exhausted as we all were, Wayne and Jonah managed to head out after our take-out feast and grab some icecream at Coldstone.
The next morning brings us to Sunday… our trip home. As luck would have it, Rory, Wayne’s aunt from Boston, just happened to be in the area for a recruiting trip and conference. We made arrangements to catch up with her and have breakfast that morning. What a wonderful way to spend our Sunday morning!

Before heading back up to Castro Valley, I took the boys on a quick tour of my hometown – El Toro (now known as Lake Forest), and then stopped in and visited with Lisa and her two boys, Tommy and Andy, whom I have never met, but felt like I knew them so well after all the years of picture and story exchanges! It was a great visit – one I wish could have lasted longer. By the time we gassed up, it was 1pm… and we were off on our trip home.
The drive home was less eventful – which was a good thing. With a few stops for necessities, we got home in 8 hours, putting the boys to bed just after 9pm. Although we got into bed just after 11pm that night, giving us just about as much sleep as we do on ‘regular’ work-nights, I think we’re still trying to catch up on our sleep!
Again, all-in-all, it was a wonderful trip. We’re so very glad we did it, and love that Jonah had such a great time. We definitely want to go again, but will wait until both boys are a little older… and will plan for at least 2 days (maybe 3) of being at the park. Oh, and we’ll definitely fly next time!
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